Gift giving when it comes to Ukrainian relationships is a long established tradition. This generous gesture dates back centuries. It’s a far reaching practice that originated from a mixture of folklore, tradition and societal values. Though traditional in its origin, the art of gift giving in Ukrainian relationships has slightly been modernised into the dating dynamic we see today. It of course still retains the essence of those expectations and ideals set many years ago.
A gift is much more than just a joy to open or receive, but a tradition where romance is considered out of respect and admiration. In each phase of your relationship you will slowly learn the etiquette and tradition that Ukrainian women know and love when it comes to their gifts.
We will unpack what gifts are appropriate for each phase of getting to know someone, as well as when you are in a relationship as the level of your connection will determine your purchase and intent
The phase of your connection informs your gift choice
Your romantic journey seems to be going well. It is early on and you are slowly getting to know more about your love interest. You are entranced by her beauty, unique mind and perhaps her more softer, thoughtful comments. It’s that special time when you are slowly getting to know someone. It’s embedded deeply within Ukrainian culture to send gifts – but what is best to send to her? And, how can I send the right, intentional message?
Getting to know each other phase
Each phase that you are in reveals different truths about your romantic prospect, so try to be attentive with what she likes, dislikes and fills her time with. It’s all about going the extra mile with being thoughtful. At the start, the woman you’re talking to does not expect an expensive, elaborate gift by no means. In fact this may even come across as being insincere, or overwhelming to your love interest. Culturally, It’s important to remember that an expensive present so early could at best send the wrong message and at worst put pressure on the budding relationship. Keep it simple, but thoughtful. Instead, remember that Ukrainian women value authenticity and emotional depth over excessive gifts.
Gift ideas
A Ukrainian gift giving tradition is to simply be thoughtful. There are many smaller gift ideas that can translate well to your romantic interest, where she will feel considered and appreciated. but early on this can just be a special flower, chocolates or a unique souvenir. If you choose to go down the flowers road, just be aware of all the intricate meanings flowers that can symbolise.
Flower Intent
Flowers are an age-old Ukrainian gift giving tradition. But remember, flowers each hold a unique meaning to them, and this will inform the feeling she gets when she picks up her boutique or single stemmed flower. When you first get to know your romantic interest, a unique choice of floral arrangement could be the Gerbera Daisies, they symbolise a sense of playfulness and fun. This flower is all about happiness. But maybe you want to be more intentional and considered , then you could always send Freesias. A delicate flower that represents trust and thoughtfulness. This flower will show you care but you are not too forward.
If you want to go for a popular choice, Tulips can work wonders. They are less intense than Roses and can be a softer expression of admiration and love. Roses could come later. Remember that some flowers evoke feelings of friendship– depending on what you are wanting from this relationship, it is so important to be aware of the messages you are sending. Chrysanthemums do just that, they are for a warm friendship, usually reserved for funerals or when you wish to communicate honor or respect. So, best not to send a chrysanthemum. Simply dating offers a range of gifts to send on our website and each gift is picked with these meanings in mind.
In Ukrainian culture It’s customary to always include an odd number of flowers. Even numbers are arranged for funerals. It’s worth doing a small amount of research before you send your flowers as there are unique, cultural quirks like the odd flower custom.
Gift Giving within Relationships
If you have recently made it official or been together with your love interest for quite a few months, it’s safe to be slightly more brave with your romantic gifts. If you have been on plenty of dates or talked for a bit longer than a six months you could buy her something a bit more personal. Maybe buy her a book? This could be a book you admire or that she has mentioned to you in conversation. The more personal the better.
Tap into her world
You, above all people, know your romantic partner the most. Why not give her something that she does in her spare time, like a hobby? This can be such a thoughtful gesture and one that she will surely appreciate. Just remember that practical gifts too soon are not usually desirable in Ukrainian culture.
In come the roses
As far as Ukrainian gift giving traditions go, nothing is more embedded in courting culture as much as flowers. Roses are a bold statement of affection and can truly flaunt your strong feelings in a very clear way. But remember, it’s all about moderation, consider giving just one rose for a confident impact. Or, to make bigger waves, a boutique might just sweep her off her feet, but remember to make sure it’s an odd number of flowers. Simply Dating can send some roses to your lady if you would like.
Lavender Flowers
Maybe you have a real comfortable, deep kind of love? Then Lavender could be a slightly refreshing flower to send to your romantic partner. These purple flowers bring a sense of calm and devotion. It’s a unique choice and one that your partner might really love.
Simply Dating
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